Trust God? During these times?

Trust God? During these times?

Those practicing a 12-step lifestyle often summarize the program as “Trust God, Clean…

Recovery Rule #1 – Surrender to Love

Recovery Rule #1 – Surrender to Love

When my world flips upside down, I want to bolt. Where? Anywhere. Just…

Me, My Psych Meds and My 12-step Recovery

Me, My Psych Meds and My 12-step Recovery

 As I sat in my jail cell I had to question the admonition…

Recovery Rules

Recovery Rules

Just a kid on her bike and her dad jogging alongside. “I want…

Hey Dr. Phil! We are not “Idiots.”

Hey Dr. Phil! We are not “Idiots.”

Mentally ill? For most of recorded history the treatment was barbaric. Labeled as…

god, meds and recovery

god, meds and recovery

So 12-step recovery suggests I find a God (or god) of my own…

And it begins like this…

And it begins like this…

I’m taking a whiz in an inappropriate place again. Apparently five plus years…

Hey 13th Steppers! Give it a Rest.

Hey 13th Steppers! Give it a Rest.

Celia never seemed to put more than a few months together clean. A…

Justifiable Anger???

Justifiable Anger???

Yes, I know better. But sometimes I make the mistake of watching the…

Failures into Lessons

Failures into Lessons

My last bipolar manic episode was what my 94-year-old mother would call a…

Live and Let Live!

Live and Let Live!

Is it “Live and Let Live” or should it be “Love Unconditionally and…

The Power of Silence

The Power of Silence

Once again I was wrong. Once again it was due to my over-inflated…

Self-Help vs. Selfless-Help: The Key to Sobriety

Self-Help vs. Selfless-Help: The Key to Sobriety

I did it again. Slick ad on Facebook. A play to my reoccurring…

Hope is Found Here???

Hope is Found Here???

At a 12-step home group I regularly attend there is a prominently displayed…

Heaven is NOW!

Heaven is NOW!

As critical as I can be, I actually have very few beefs with…

The Importance of Steps 6 & 7

The Importance of Steps 6 & 7

He was three years “sober.” After running a hose from the tailpipe of…

The Paradox of Intention

The Paradox of Intention

In recovery, there are those who have achieved the promise of “happy, joyous…

The Spirituality of Imperfection

The one question I wish people would ask me is whether I’d prefer…

What Do You Need to be Happy?

What Do You Need to be Happy?

Alcoholics and addicts love to talk about being happy, joyous and free. I…